Everything You Need to Know about Anal Sex

Written by: dvwilson01

The ideal subject I was asked about is anal sex

According to a story from Kinsey institute, almost 37% of people are open to the concept of anal sex and about 40% of people might have experienced sex through anal in their life. Most of the people I have talked to have anal sex in their list of the things to try once in their life.

Usually, people do not know how to have anal sex while trying it once. Most of them usually do not attempt it as they have heard it as a painful experience. To say frankly, sex through anal can be enjoyable after hurting you some times. The truth that something will enter through the exit cannot be denied even by making all the efforts in this world. It all depends upon stretching and sensitivity. You are not recommended to use something to numb anal as the speed and depth of this act can be determined based on discomfort and pain. Moreover, you can stop or slow down anal sex based on the extent of pain.

 

Reasons to try anal sex

 

Many people are interested in knowing the responsiveness of lots of responsive nerves found in the anus area when touched slightly. People of all sizes, sexuality, and shapes usually consider anal sex as an exciting experience. You and your partner can share bonding and intensity of sexual experiences through anal sex.

 

Typically anal sex is considered as a thing that creates a magnetic attraction. Some of the people I have talked to have opted for sex through anal because pregnancy is impossible in this sexual activity. Moreover, it can ensure the virginity of the vagina. For others, anal sex is a preferable sexual activity because of the intensity of the arousal they get.

 

Since 2009, the amount of people trying penetration in the anal has increased by 20%, according to a study by Statista.

Poop in anal sex

 

In anal sex, poop cannot be ignored. Some fecal mater can be seen on the penis, fingers, or any other product used for pleasure during anal sex even if the possibility of poop cannot be expected. However, with a shower and a bowel movement nearly one hour before this sexual activity, it can be avoided.

Enema found at drug stores can also be used for this purpose. While using a sex toy you should clean it thoroughly.

 

According to CDCP or the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, the risk of acquiring infection of HIV is 13 times more with receptive anal sex than anal sex of insertive nature. According to them, the risk transmission of sexual infection can be reduced by using condoms every time.

 

The information provided here under can help you in making the right decision about enjoying anal sex.

Use a lot of lubrication, go slowly and relax

 

While having anal sex your mind should be familiar to it unless you are following someone or being deceived by someone. Anal sex can be a painful experience for you if you are not mentally prepared for it due to the tightness of your anus.

You should be aware of your bottom before trying sex through anal. You should know the sensitive areas near your anus. Before using your fingers into your anus you should massage its outer area slowly.

 

You should go slow and take your time to be prepared for anal sex as your entire pelvic region can feel the intensity of this sexual game.

 

Anal sex tips for newbies

 

Tip 1: The condition of the partner receiving experience of anal sex depends upon the strap-on toy or the penis of the partner as it has to be inserted into his rear. So, the receiving partner can make the experience enjoyable by going at his pace as per his comfort level and controlling the insertion. You must bend your legs at the knees in a slightly forward position and lay on your side to keep the muscles of your rectum completely relaxed. The spooning position can be the best for the first-timer as it supports the receiver.

 

Tip 2: A lot of lubricant should be applied repeatedly as the anus does not lubricate automatically. JO Premium Anal Personal Lubricant is one of the silicon lubricants recommended for this purpose due to its durability and effective formula. Usually water-based and natural lubricants are recommended for this purpose because they are easy to clean and have lesser chemicals, as well as porous membranes of the rectal canal, can transmit moisture and soluble chemicals to your bloodstream. During anal sex natural lubricating gel Sliquid Sassy is also recommended as its water-based thick formula can provide additional padding. You can increase your pleasure by using coconut oil as it will take care of the delicate tissue in your anal region with its antifungal anti-inflammatory and antibacterial properties but it can damage condoms made of latex. You can choose a lubricant on the basis of your experience and preferences.

Make an effort for rimming

When you insert your tongue into the anal or kiss or lick it then it is known as anilingus or rimming. You can explore the rear of your partner by combining some additional action with your tongue or lips along with routine oral sex activities.

You should keep in mind the recommendation of HIV.gov and CDCP about the use of plastic wrap while rimming to reduce the risk of transmission of sexual infection orally.

 

Make anal sex easier with pleasure products

If you are new to anal sex and want to be familiar with the feeling of insertion into your anus then you can start with some small and easy pleasure products. Beginners may shirk using stiff and hard things like metal or glass but they can be ready for intercourse through their anus by starting with a flexible and smooth toy with a projection around its base. If you want to try pegging even then this toy can be used with harnesses.

 

Introduction with pegging

Having penetrative anal sex without a penis is known as pegging.

To start with pegging you can use a strap-on dildo before you choose the best attachment or toy for you but before trying pegging you and your partner must have an anal massage. It can be painful and discomforting if a virgin starts inserting a toy carelessly.

You can start with cured attachments if your aim is to stimulate the prostate, increase anal orgasm and pleasure as it can easily approach your prostate gland.

Use of anal toys

While using any kind of product for anal pleasure you should use a lot of lubricants. You should insert the toy by lying down on the side with curled up legs. It will relax the muscles of your anus naturally and make it less resistant to insertion. You should take your time and insert the toy slowly and gradually. The main purpose of using an anal pleasure toy is to stimulate the nerve endings concentrated in that area delightfully even with the smallest thing.

It is very important to check the ways you are inserting the toy as it can make your experience bad or good. You should never insert toys forcefully.

A newbie can comfortably wear a plug with a triangular base between his cheeks. They should also use a condom while using anal products as it will not only provide them a smooth surface to insert it easily but also makes it easier to clean up after the act.

Men can feel tenser when a vibrator is used near their anus but for females, it can be opposite, according to the people I have talked with. The anal muscles of most females get relaxed when a vibrating anal toy is used. So it will be great for beginners to use vibrating anal toys, to begin with. The products without vibration made of silicone can also be cleaned easily in different ways. Some forms of rubber like TPR/TPE are not expensive like silicone but they cannot be cleaned like silicone toys.

Occasionally people like to get the sensual pleasure to an extreme level. People have told about several items they have used as pleasure devices for anus only because their rectum has an intense amount of suction. Fruits, bottles, flashlights, and vegetables are some of the foreign objects that can be trapped inside the rectum but light bulbs of different shapes are most commonly used for this purpose, as told by two of my friends working as nurses in an emergency room. Though the surface of light bulbs is smooth but unluckily they have nothing to hold on. For this reason, I constantly recommend using a pleasure toy with flange

 

Use of anal beads

You can greatly increase the level of the pleasure of anal sex by using anal beads. The movement of anal beads can increase the intensity of arousal by producing sensation. While inserting anal beads many people experience pleasure whereas for others the enjoyable moment is when the beads are pulled out at the time of orgasm as it can improve the high point. Some people organize big and smaller beads in a progressive order along a cord so that you can insert them from smaller beads or as per your liking. I also suggest attaching something large like a vibrator to the ring of the anal beads to reduce the risk of sucking the beads inside the rectum.

Make your prostate happy

When males are aroused their prostate swells naturally so to get aroused you should raise your legs and massage the entrance of your anal gently by using any of the preferred ways you used to use in routine. To make insertion smooth and easy you should use your fingers to apply lubricant after relaxing the anal muscles nicely. You will notice that your prostate is squeezed inside nearly two inches and look like a small bump of the size of a chestnut

Prostate massager came into existence to stimulate the prostate effectively as your fingers are not long enough to massage it effectively. Beginners and experienced people can use ergonomically designed high-quality prostate massagers to align it with the prostate after inserting it once.

 

Adventures for the beginners

The beginners can slightly increase the size of the butt plug to increase the feeling of pleasure and fullness by improving sensation if they are ready for adventure. To stimulate their Skene gland or prostate gland I recommend the use of curved shaped butt. The skene gland, prostate of females, releases fluid, like the male prostate during orgasm when it is stimulated during anal insertion.

 

Extremely advanced game of anal sex

The size and creativity of anal play can be increases extremely. For most experts and experienced anal players, several anal pleasure products are available if they like inflated action on the rear.

Produce a safe word

It is good to generate a safe word that you can use if the anal sex heats up beyond your comfort level to play like a master. You can select a phrase or a word that can be used wrongly. During anal sex, no and yes can be understood wrongly as per the study of the National Institute of Health. While choosing the safe word you should ensure that both partners are ready to use it. Light and orange banana etc. are some of the creative safe words used during anal sex.

You can use slow or some other words of your choice to try something unique. While trying new things it is good to know about your sexuality. You can also choose anal pleasure as it can be more appropriate for your rear passage. However, while using a dildo, penis, or plug you should keep in mind to insert them slowly instead of forcing them. There is a possibility of injuring or tearing the two ringed muscles in the rectum, like other muscles in your body. So for this reason you are advised to take your time, relax and use lubricant in abundance for anal sex.

If you have ever tried anal sex or want to experience it then you can share your experiences, adventures, and tips with Sex Ed. You can also ask any question regarding anal sex if it is not answered in this write-up. We are ready to help you.