Vibrators 101: A Beginner's Ultimate Guide to Sex Toys

Written by: abbylovesmakeup

Gone are the days when we question the masturbation habits of the people around us. It's no longer taboo and not an uneasy topic to open up about anymore. In this day and age, embracing your masturbation habits and the need to do it from time to time is part of your self-care routine. If you have a need, then you got to take care of it.

Masturbation is not only about sexual relief. I mean, duh! Of course an orgasm is how you know you did it successfully but there's actually more to that. If it pleasures you, then it's just like getting a bubble bath, retail therapy, a massage and the like.

If you've been enjoying your fingers in the past and want to explore sex toys now, then you've come to the right page. We're about to educate you on many options for vibrators that you can choose from!

What is a vibrator?

Orgasms from clitoris stimulation is mainly from the fast movement of your finger. It's a sensitive part of your vagina, as you may already know as it has about 8,000 nerve endings. In fact, it's one of the most erogenous zones in your womanhood that there have been studies showing that your clitoral orgasm might just be the best orgasm ever!

So, if you've orgasmed using your fingers, imagine a vibrator with an electricity operated motor doing the job for you. You'll orgasm faster and better! The great thing about vibrators is that you can use it for different areas - your nipples, your clit, your g spot and even the penis of your partner! Talk about versatile pleasure.

How does a vibrator work?

It can be quite overwhelming to use a vibrator for the first time especially that there are so many shapes and sizes available because they've grown popular over the past few years. But all these kinds have one common denominator and that is called a motor.

The simplest way to explain this is that although vibrators have different settings and speeds, is that a motor activates it. You can either charge it or change it's batteries depending on what type you purchase.

The vibrating motion is what provides you pleasure. 

How do I use a vibrator?

Just like sex, you only need to know 2 things.

One, that as long as it pleasures a specific area, you're okay to use it that way. And two, make sure you're doing it safe.

Other than that, you're free to do anything you want with it. The experiment phase is the most fun!

What are my options for vibrators?

If you take a look at online catalogues right now, you'll know that vibrators are classified based on what they look like and where you use them.

Clit Vibrators

Clitoral vibrators are so popular because most women find the most pleasure in this area. Basically, these are smaller vibrators designed for easy handling because it targets a very small area. You'll find so many shapes and sizes available that are also great for other forms of external stimulation. So most of these kinds may be used for the anus, nipples, testicles and penis.

This is also a great choice for women who are iffy about inserting anything in their vagina.

Finger Vibrators

Some women find it more enjoyable to use their own fingers than a tool. If you're a manual stimulation kind of chick, then finger vibrators should be your weapon of choice. Compared to other vibrators, these are very low-pressure and kind of feels like your real fingers.

A lot of couples own finger vibrators because they're great for foreplay. In fact, to make the experience more realistic, it allows you to attach these toys onto your fingers which makes the toy super easy to manipulate.

So it's like your usual play around the anus, balls or clit but this time, with an upgraded hand. NAUGHTY, isn't it?

G-spot Vibrators

There's a lot of controversy surrounding G-spots. Some say it's a myth while some sex gurus say that it takes a lot to discover where it really is. Normally, this would be about 2 to 3 inches up the vagina - so this is an internal erogenous zone. A G-spot orgasm is probably the kind that you feel when you are being penetrated by a penis. But in this case, a toy will do it for you.

G-spot vibrators often look like penises. They are designed in such a way that you can insert it on to your vagina like how a usual penis would penetrate it. Hence, given the variety of dicks, you can also find a variety of sizes and shapes for G-spot vibrators. Go ahead and take your pick!

Wand Vibrators

Yes, you guessed that right, this is the big handheld massager that every porn star owns. And yes, because of their size, they offer a stronger intense feeling that small vibrators don't. The size of the head of a wand vibrator is quite large and is only meant for external stimulation. But there are manufacturers who offer interchangeable heads so you can attach something that you can insert inside a vagina that moves in such rowdy, pleasurable ways.

 

The orgasms you get from wand vibrators are pretty hardcore. If you watch a lot of porn, then you've probably seen multiple orgasms. This is a great toy for couples who want to do hardcore foreplay.

Bullet Vibrators

Travel friendly and as small as a lipstick - that's how you would generally define a bullet vibrator!

These are clit vibrators that are really small that you can even take them to work. Hey, no judgement here. If you want an orgasm during lunch break then why not.

Even if bullet vibrators are small, they're powered to provide different vibrating speeds to give you the pleasure that you want. Personally, women who travel a lot who find it embarrassing to bring big sex toys around go for bullet type vibrators.

IMPORTANT: If you're a total beginner to the sex toys world and want to ease into it, then this should be your first purchase. It has a simple shape, it's small, it has limited vibe settings and you won't feel as overwhelmed compared to when you use something that's so intricate and big for the first time.

Rabbit Vibrators

This is probably one the OG vibrators! And if you've been doing your research a lot lately, then you've probably found thousands of reviews from users of rabbit vibrators. They're called rabbit because they have a rabbit ear shaped vibrator attached to the main vibrator. Because there are 2 sources of pleasure, this vibrator is often referred to as dual stimulators as well.

The bigger arm is meant for internal stimulation and the rabbit ear is for your clitoris. So this vibrator is meant to pleasure both your G-spot and C-spot, simultaneously. First time users of the rabbit vibrators feel confused because they don't know which spot to focus on given that you can't just take this toy apart. The great thing is that this has 2 switches. So if both arms are too much for you, then you can use one arm at a time first.

Rabbit vibrators are also designed to be very flexible so don't worry so much about how you can insert one arm into your vagina while positioning the rabbit ear on top your clit area with the best stimulation. They're very easy to bend around.

Slimline Vibrators

Minimalist much? Slimline vibrators are for you. Some women, especially busy boss babes, just want to get their orgasm before going to bed or before getting up in the morning. Slimline vibrators offer a basic design that you can use for both internal and external pleasure.

Like bullet type vibrators, slimline vibrators are great for beginners as well. It doesn't have an odd shape, it just has simple design and absolute no frills. Only difference is that it offers various sizes if you're the kind of girl that enjoys girth and penetration.

Anal Vibrators

Everyone has a butt so everyone deserves to be "vibed" back there. If you're new to anal stimulation, what you could do is to have your partner touch your anus or you can do it yourself. When you do it properly and when you're in a relaxed state, this can be a great source of pleasure for both men and women. As a matter of fact, next to the clitoris, your anal area has the number of pleasurable nerve endings in the body.

Just be sure to use a lube when you decide to insert anal vibrators internally as your rectum does not produce juices like the vagina. It can be quite painful and hot if you don't lubricate first. 

Vibrating Cock Rings 

You've probably seen cock rings being sold alongside a pack of condoms. This is because vibrating cock rings are great for couples as well. And although a penis can benefit from using a vibrating cock ring, it gives sex a more interesting feel for both individuals.

Cock rings are sort of like elastic rings that you can wrap around a penis that vibrates. No, it doesn't hurt. And no, it isn't heavy. They have small switches with small motors. The general idea is that while you're being penetrated, your clitoral area is being stimulated as well because the cock ring vibrates on it. It's like everything good happening all at once! And it's really going to take you to a whole new level of orgasms.

Penis Vibrators

Finally, something for penises! Although also great for couples, penis vibrators are meant for the male market. They have odd shapes or are shaped like flesh lights which target massaging the head of the penis first and then eventually the shaft. Just like other vibrators, male vibrators offer a lot of modes as well. Some even feel like real vaginas because of the flesh-like interior.

It may seem disgusting at first but did you know that penis vibrators are made of high grade silicone? So they're like real flesh but super easy to clean and store.

Couples Vibrators

If we're totally being honest, AND CREATIVE, any vibrator may be used as a couple vibrators. There are different designs available based on the many ways on how you can position yourselves together while having sex. This is practically one single toy that offers pleasure to both the man and the woman at the same time. A lot of these types of vibrators have remote controls to make the experience even more fun!

That's a lot of sex toys right there!

And those are just vibrators! Don't be shy to shop around and know more about yourself through sex toys. I mean, you probably already know that masturbating has positive effects on your overall well-being so it's totally fine to want to use them. You become calmer, you get to destress, it removes a lot of tension caused by your everyday life and it immediately boosts your mood.

Plus, we also are very aware how sex plays an important role in a couple's life. If you want to keep things spicy in bed or if you want to upgrade your sexy time game, vibrators are a great choice. There is no man or woman who is repulsed by the feeling of a vibrator so you're sure that one or more of these toys would be a big hit in the bedroom.

Lastly, don't feel guilty about wanting some solo time if you're already in a sexually active relationship. To put it simply, masturbation is a great way for you to discover your desires more. Playing with yourself by the use of a vibrator can actually help you comfortably find pleasure spots that you can tell your partner about so both of you can take your enjoyment of each other's bodies to a whole new level!

So, tell us, what vibrator do you plan to purchase? We'd love to know!