Best Foreplay Tips To Spice Up Your Sex Life

Written by: kousik

If you feel that your foreplay is becoming quite boring and repetitive? If so, this is not good news. Foreplay is the only important aspect of setting the right mood for lovemaking. And, foreplay isn't optional. It is not something you carry on for a few minutes before rushing into the main event.

If you are struggling with this lately, don't worry, we have you covered. In this article, you would get some insight on how to make the foreplay interesting to have a more satisfying experience the next time. Keep in mind that sex is all about having a fun-filled exciting experience and not a boring one.

It's time that you perfect your strokes and techniques to have good results. The main aspect of foreplay is to tease and bring your partner much closer to orgasm. Here are the best tips to achieve the best foreplay sessions so as to have a great experience in the near future.

1. Make good use of grinding

Grinding is a good maneuver that sets both of you to work on something interesting. Rather than delving into a clitoral stimulation or full penetration, it is better to try a bit of grinding. Also, well-renowned as ‘dry humping', it helps you to set the course for a better experience.

Grinding helps you to rouse your pubic area and a greater part of your clitoris. On top of that, the thing works even when you have your clothes on. To make the situation more intense, tell your man to give special importance to your breasts.

It is worthy to note that almost every man loves breasts, but most of them don't remember to kiss and squeeze them gently. That's because they are drawn more towards the lower part of the body. When a man's fingers or lips caress your breasts, the nipples, in particular, feels amazing. This way, both of you would be enjoying the moment.

2. Move-in a twisting pattern and poke gently

After grinding on for some time, you need to proceed to the next level. The foreplay is going on, and both of you are caressing and kissing each other. Now, encourage your man to try a different technique where he needs to relax his lips and make his tongue run around the tip of your juicy nipples.

Then he changes his action to a poking one, where he uses his tongue again to poke the nipples. Make sure your partner alternates these actions so as to feel the intense emotions. After performing such action on the nipples, he can move downwards and perform a similar endeavor to give you oral sensation.

3. Hold tight and release

Now that's the action that will drive your man wild and crazy. Take some lubricating solution in your hand and gently grip and release instead of stroking the thing up and down. This is one of the proven techniques and a great way to keep the moment going on and on for a prolonged time.

Add a bit of spice to the whole thing by rubbing your thumb in upward and downward motion through the section of skin that runs from the tip to the shaft. Massage the part gently and slowly while gripping it hard and releasing it at the same time.

When you feel that he is about to reach the climax, give a break, and begin all over again. This technique is a guaranteed way of having a serious and intense ending.

4. Make frequent whispers to his ears

One of the overlooked areas in man that stimulates sexual feeling are the earlobes and ears. These areas if properly aroused would help to make the situation even more intense. You can produce fresh, intense emotions by stroking and kissing this specific area.

Long nails, in particular, could be very handy during this maneuver. If you possess long nails, tickle, and scratch behind your partner's ears. Next, you can run your tongue all the way to the earlobes only to whisper naughty and mischievous thoughts straight to his ear. Moreover, the warm air from your mouth would make the position more intense and that would drive him crazy and wild.

5. Warm and cool sensations

One of the greatest ways to escalate your foreplay is to enjoy warm and cool sensations at the same time. If you keep an ice cube inside your mouth for a little time and then place your mouth on his penis, your man would get a blowjob that's more amazing than he has experienced before.

Also, you can sip any kind of hot drink and perform the maneuver. You can try using honey, chocolate, or cream on his hardened penis. Like a lollipop, suck everything off by slowly licking the part. Now, it's your turn to have some fun.

Take the ingredients and stack them in your nipples. Tell your partner to gently lick them off and make it clean. Remember that the intensity of the foreplay would be more with slower actions. Keep in mind that rushing onto things would not give the desired effect.

6. Try something new always

It is quite easy for you and your partner to hold on and get comfortable with the things you know best. But, it is equally important to make regular additions into the mixture to keep out boredom. Why not engage with a new toy, the one that can give you the same kind of enjoyment.

Or, you can carry yourselves out of the house for a night out or a dinner outside. Watch your partner go crazy by seeing your intense sexual pleasure. This aspect of hiding intense pleasure in public heightens your sensations and increases your sexual feelings.

7. Amazing oral

When you want to tease your man, the only thing you can do is to have great oral sex. However, there is no need to rush in for things to get all over. Tell him to relax while you kneel down to spread the legs to have clear visuals of his thighs.

Making good use of your tongue, slowly caress and kiss your partner's inner thighs including the groin area. Make it more intense by blowing the area you have caressed and kissed with the tongue. This action helps to produce a different kind of sensation.

Lick and kiss the area over and again, and slowly get closer to your man's topmost sensitive area. Apply firm and light pressure on the bottom, thighs, and hips to build a strong sensation. This way, you can allow yourself to engage further. When conducted accurately, you may need to prepare yourself for a vigorous explosion.

8. The mutual feelings

Mutual masturbation is not for all, yet many people are in favor of them. To make situations easy for both of you, try some erotic music with some candles and lingerie so as to make yourself feel and look sexy. Both of you have to be comfortable about that and sitting ideally across from one another.

Start by running your hands all over your body. While running your hands from your neck all the way to the ankle, why not give him a sexy cheeky smile. When you are about to touch the most sensitive areas, look him in the eyes and make him understand what you really want.

While you are doing these things, it conveys an elevated emotion that would drive him wild with erotic sensations. This is when you need to introduce a clitoral stimulator and a male masturbator to get the most out of this particular moment. The delight of watching each other masturbate is quite awesome.

9. Play with all your senses

In general, it is believed that when a person is blindfolded, the other senses in the body are heightened. Hence, try something different and unique by blindfolding each other. Then, tease and caress each other's physique with different kinds of things such as ships, features, ice, and many more.

Soon you would feel that the sensations are pretty much different and they felt quite amazing. Also, your touch would feel very much different than it used to be. Take a step further and try cooling a vibrator inside a fridge or heating up a dildo.

You can feel them wonderful when they are used around your nipples and clitoris. Keep in mind always to make good use of the situation and have conducted your experiment together. 

10. It's showtime!

The last one is aimed at your man. We all know that men are visually stimulated and they get arousal quickly. Hence, stripping would drive him nuts. Make sure he can't touch you and all he can do is watch from a distance.

Conclusion:

Foreplay is something that sets the perfect mood for making intense love. After all, you shouldn't be mindlessly hovering through your emotions only for the sake of your partner. It is something special that turns you on, as well. The term implies that what follows next, is somehow better. Follow these steps the next time and see what happens.